Some people know the exact type of person they are looking for. They think they want tall, head strong, confident, career oriented with a soft and loving personality that is spontaneous. We can all probably create a list of preferred qualities but in the end we are unlikely to find all the qualities we want in a person let alone all of them at the preferred depth. Numerology uses a system of adding a birthday month, day and year together to arrive at a number that can define your intrinsic personality characteristics. By taking a look at your desired characteristics in a soul mate and at the actual personality that you exhibit, you are likely to be surprised by the outcome.
In birthday numerology compatibility, you can help get pointed in the right direction of your potential soul mate but understanding what you are looking for is the first step. For example, career oriented can mean you are simply looking for someone that is a professional or college educated, but it can unintentionally translate to career obsessed when you find that doctor or business executive that you thought would be the best match for your own career focused ambitions. Instead of having the life you wanted you will end up with a nice home nobody is living in because you are both working! Numerology may help you to see that someone who is curious, resourceful and selfless will be a better match, and may even help you convert your ambitions in to opportunities to help others in ways you may have never thought to on your own.
What to do Now That You Have the Right Number
Birthday numerology compatibility can’t exactly put two soul mates in the same room. What it can do, is help to wade through some of the tough spots a couple can be experiencing by making them more aware of their personality traits. Numerology can also help identify potential issues with particular qualities. If you happen to be a number 7, you are often associated with having an incessant need for knowledge and reasoning and truth. If you realize that you adore the attention of your love interest but that their worldly ways and free spirit are a little too much of a compromise, then you might start to take a look at a better match from number 8’s or number 9’s who are predictably more career focused and more grounded.
The work of birthdate compatibility numerology isn’t found in the calculations of your actual numbers- that is the absolute easiest part. The difficult component is actually putting the right two numbers together in the first place. Some people wonder if they should specifically look for a certain number to match their personality or simply embrace the number that crosses their path. Those who believe in numerology liken it to excluding all brunettes or blue eyed people from your pool of potential soul mates. It is important to keep an open mind and use your birthdate numerology compatibility as a guide and support.